Zonkatron

Hello there! I am Zonkatron and I am the inventor of the concept of the healing lifecycle.

Every cell in your body has a lifecycle, and so does your healing process in this life. It has a specific structure that you can understand and use to your advantage. By knowing this structure, you can figure out where you are and where you’re going next in your healing process. You can also speed up or slow down the ride, depending on what you need and want.

Are you happy with your life right now? Do you feel lucky, satisfied, fulfilled? Or are you unhappy with your life right now? Do you feel miserable, wronged, stuck?

The answer to these questions depends only on where you are in your healing lifecycle. If you’re happy, it means you’re at a certain stage of healing that allows you to enjoy the fruits of your labor. It doesn’t mean that your life is better or worse than others, it just means that you’re at the right place at the right time. But don’t get too comfortable, because this stage won’t last forever. Sooner or later, you’ll face new challenges and obstacles that will test your faith and resilience. It might take months, years, or even decades until you hit rock bottom in your healing cycle, but rest assured it will happen one day.

On the other hand, if you’re unhappy, it means you’re at a certain stage of healing that requires you to face your wounds and fears. It doesn’t mean that your life is hopeless or doomed, it just means that you’re at the wrong place at the wrong time. But don’t despair, because this stage won’t last forever either. Sooner or later, you’ll overcome your difficulties and discover new opportunities that will lift your spirits and inspire your dreams. It might take ages, but it will happen one day.

They say time flies when you’re having fun, and drags when you’re not. You might think that some people have more fun than others, or that some people have more pain than others. But the truth is, everyone has a balance of happiness and unhappiness in their lives. Everyone goes through cycles of joy and sorrow, success and failure, love and loss. You can’t stop or skip these cycles, they are part of your soul’s evolution. You can only move through them, sometimes fast, sometimes slow.

And what happens when you die? Well, the ride doesn’t end there. It continues in another form, in another place, in another life. Your soul remembers where you left off, and picks up from there. So if you die happy, you’ll start happy in your next life. And if you die unhappy, you’ll start unhappy in your next life. That’s why it’s important to heal yourself as much as you can in this life, so that you can enjoy the next one better.

Here’s a tip for living a fantastic life: Make the last chapter of your life the happiest one. When you die, say goodbye to this world with gratitude and excitement for what’s to come. Heal yourself as much as you can in this life, and trust me, you’ll thank yourself in the next one.

Now, let us zoom in on all the stages of the healing life cycle.

Stage Zero – Normal (feeling Neutral)

This is the stage of feeling normal. Life resembles a routine you live through. You are neither incredibly happy nor very unhappy. Your needs are met. You feel fine within yourself and with the world around you – no big drama. Life is fine but somehow boring. You have plenty of time for contemplation, creating your internal philosophical monologue, and observing how other people live, feel, and think. This neutral stage could last anywhere from one to ten years, depending on how much rest and rejuvenation you need. This is the analog of your summer school holiday. Your soul at this stage is making slow progress, but more importantly, you are unconsciously getting prepared for your next healing cycle.

Stage One – The Pain (The Root Cause)

This is the stage of extreme shock. Someone you loved suddenly passed away and you cannot imagine how to live without them. You lost all your money, and now you might be spending the rest of your life homeless on the street. You just discovered that your husband of 20 years is cheating on you. You cannot even imagine what your life will be like next. This stage could last from one month to one year. At this stage, you live in such confusion that you do not know who you are anymore. It is more than what you can deal with and therefore you just shut down until the next stage.

Stage Two – Suppression Stage (Denial)

This is the stage of denial. You were unable to deal with your pain (physical or emotional) before but now you have found relief in the unhealthiest way, but still a temporary relief. You are borrowing time to get yourself ready for the healing stage. You are stuck and you know it, but you still do not see how or why you would snap out of it. You are getting into serious addictive behaviors, but you are too weak to resist them. You know that something is wrong with your life, but you cannot imagine any way to fix it. Life is ugly at this stage. It is so ugly that doing unethical things is the right way to live. You are becoming a destructive person. You could not care less about your life. The entire world is wrong, unethical, inhumane, greedy, selfish, and hateful at this stage. You are stuck in a downward-spiraling negative mindset. This stage could last from one year to a lifetime. A lot of people get stuck at this stage. Some people inadvertently end their lives through their unhealthy way of living. Amy Winehouse died from alcoholism. Michael Jackson died from drug abuse. Lots of celebrities get stuck in this stage for ages. If you think money and fame are the way to happiness, you are so far away from the truth. Life is fair. Everyone will have to experience this stage in their healing cycle. No one keeps having it easy and happy forever, even though it might appear to be so.

Stage Three – Rock Bottom (Unhappy Life)

This is the worst phase of your life. If you ask yourself whether your life is a happy or unhappy one, you will immediately say that life is very unhappy. At this stage, you just forget about everything happy that you have experienced in your life and see life through the blackest glasses ever. Your whole life is unhappy – That is what you become sure of. The characteristic of this stage is that all the terrible memories of the past start popping up in your head. You just cannot suppress the painful memories anymore. You prefer not to live. Death for you sounds like a relief at this stage. You might even try it. If you do not try it, you are thinking of trying it now and then. If you survive to the next stage, you are lucky because you will be on your way to safety and happiness. If you hear about someone who committed suicide, you should know that they got stuck at this stage for too long. This stage could last a maximum of 3 years. Any longer than that and the person would be surely dead. Life puts you through this stage, not to torture you aimlessly, but to get you to snap out of your suppressive behavior and start transforming your soul. The decision is yours. No one can steer you in the right direction, although some people might well inspire you, and that is hope!

Stage Four – The Hope (Back on Track)

After hitting rock bottom, the universe gives you the most life-changing experience in your cycle. That marks the end of your lowest point and the only way to go is uphill. In 2008, I experienced this hope during an emotionally releasing healing session of Rebirthing Breathwork. I felt such a blissful feeling after that 2-hour healing session that I knew deep in my heart that my life would never be the same and that the future would be beautiful no matter what. I vowed to learn everything about emotional release, to become a healer, and to make it my life mission to pass it down to the world. Now, after 15 years have passed, I am a full-time healer and have helped hundreds and thousands of people heal from all sorts of problems. The hope stage can be best understood when you think of Jean Val Jean (from the famous story of Les Miserables) getting transformed when he experienced the love of a selfless priest – Something that shocked him to the core and made him realize that life was not just ugly and terrible, there was a deep genuine love out there as well that he had forgotten about. This is the aha moment. The wake-up call. The start of hope. You were living in the most depressive pessimistic internal world, and now you realize that you were wrong. Not everything in life is so bad. The spark of happiness, hope, and love enters your heart, and you can consider yourself lucky since you are onto something great. This stage is usually a short one, no more than a few months long.

Stage Five – The Search (Feeling Incomplete)

The stage of hope is not the end of your misery. You are now hopeful, but somehow still miserable. Less miserable than before, but you still have a long way to go to transform your life and soul. However, it is much easier from now on, and it will just get easier and easier. You are on track. You are safely heading toward the best period of your life. I remember my late father (who used to show up very often in my dreams) showed up and told me that he was now feeling relieved that I got there. He told me I was safe now. I was on track. He could put his mind to rest and not worry about me going off track again. But the search period is usually a long one. It took me a decade to finish this stage. This is a stage of healing leading to your soul transformation. It is slow. During this period, you are a work in progress. You are not the final product yet, and you do not even know what the final product will be like. You just know that you are changing slowly every day. Your heart is changing. I used to feel my heart becoming so sensitive that it was melting with the love of everything. You become overly sensitive to people’s vibes at this stage. You do not always feel good, and you know you are not perfect and somehow incomplete. Something about you is still incomplete, but you are discovering yourself every day. Life is making more sense every day. You are building a new fresh outlook on life. You do not see life the way you used to see it before. Life has a much deeper and more mysterious meaning than you ever thought. You have the urge to tell everyone about it. But you are still in the process of understanding it. You do not consider your life to be happy or unhappy at this stage, you just consider it to be exciting and mysterious.

Stage Six – The Transformation (Feeling Complete)

This is when you start feeling complete. Your life and soul have been transformed and you are now a new person who knows your way in life, but you have not achieved what you are destined to achieve yet. At the time of authoring this book, I am living in this transformation stage. I know my life mission, but I still have a long way to go to work it out and this book is one part of my life mission. This is a very productive stage. This stage could last anywhere between three to ten years. It is the period of getting used to your new self and becoming settled with all the changes in your personality. You have developed into a nicer, calmer, gentler, more loving human being, but you still have traces of your old self that get triggered now and then. The transformation will need to be completed before you can get to the next stage, which is the pinnacle of your healing cycle.

Stage Seven – The Rewards (Happy Life)

This is the prime time of your life. You have more than you asked for. You feel blessed with everything and everyone. You look back at your life and feel that it all makes sense now and that it had to be that way. You needed to go through all the hardship and challenges to get to where you are now. If anyone asks you whether your life is a happy one or not, you would say it was happy all along, although, in reality, you were about to commit suicide from unhappiness at a certain point. Once again, you look at it now in a positive light and you even see it as a happy, lucky, positive, important event of your life. You have simply forgotten everything hard you went through, and you are too overwhelmed with the blessings in your life to be able to think that life is cruel in any sense. You feel the divine protection and love all over you. You trust and believe in the higher power that kept you alive and guided you every step of the way. It is a very spiritual time. It is the time when you give from the heart and people see in you a loving soul. This stage lasts anywhere between days, weeks, or even years depending on how much reward the universe wants to give you. The more work you have put in previous stages to transform your soul, the longer the happiness stage will last. Your soul at this stage is taking a break. It is like celebrating your graduation. The only problem is that your soul is not going to be progressing much during this period. That is why this stage cannot last a lifetime. Eventually, you will have to move on to your next healing life cycle which could also be in your next lifetime. My spirit guides told me repeatedly that my life will end on a high note while I am feeling complete and happy during this reward stage. It is good to leave this world feeling complete.

Stage Eight – Normalizing Again (End of Cycle)

Unfortunately, nothing lasts forever and the happiness and joy of having achieved your goals will slowly become old news and you are back to mundane life, a bit boring, but still fine. You just feel normal at this stage.

Conclusion

A healing life-cycle is a series of stages that you go through to heal your wounds, learn your lessons, and fulfill your purpose. Each cycle has a beginning and an end, and each one brings you closer to your true self. Sounds amazing, right? But how long does it take to complete a cycle? And how many cycles can you do in one lifetime? Let me tell you.

The average healing life-cycle duration is 30 years. That means it takes about three decades to go through all the stages and reach the peak of your happiness and fulfillment. Of course, this is not a fixed rule. Some people may take longer or shorter than that. The minimum time to complete a cycle is seven years, and the maximum time is forever. Yes, some people may never finish a cycle, because they get stuck in one stage or they resist the change. The longer the cycle, the more intense the transformation. So, you get the point! That is why we live so long. We are here to heal and grow as much as we can.

But what about those who die young? Do they miss out on their healing journey? Not at all. Even if they don’t complete a full cycle, they still go through some stages and make some progress. Every stage counts. Every experience matters. No life is wasted or useless. And who knows, maybe they will continue their journey in another lifetime.

And what about those who live very long? Do they get to do more cycles than others? Well, yes and no. The maximum number of cycles that anyone can do in one lifetime is three. That means if you live more than 90 years, you can complete three cycles. That’s quite impressive, don’t you think? But most of us will not be able to do more than two cycles. I am now 50 years old, and I am in the middle of my second cycle. My spirit guides showed me that I will finish my second cycle in about 12 years. After that, I will be happy for the rest of my life (I am not expected to live beyond the age of 70). I will not need to start the third cycle.

You might be wondering: can we choose when to start a cycle? Can we speed up or slow down the process? The answer is YES. Of course, most people are not aware of their cycles or their spirit guides, but if you are like me, and you have a strong connection with your spiritual helpers, you can ask them to guide you to your next cycle when you are ready. Yes, this is very rare, but I chose to start my second cycle right after I finished my first one because I saw how much it changed me for the better. I wanted more of that.